What’s tight for some people would be loose for others. And vice versa.
And the presence of some people feels like wearing clothes. One person can make me feel as if I’m wearing tight jeans and can hardly breathe whereas others make me feel like I’m wearing jogging pants with room to move. What makes you look good doesn’t necessarily make you feel good.
Tight behavior vs. loose behavior. Agoraphobic or claustrophobic? Contract or expand? So many decisions and so little time.