The Book of Whys

Drawing of a woman riding a horse

At the end of their TV show, King of the Cowboys, Roy Rogers, and his wife, Dale Evans, would sing “Happy Trails to You” wishing their viewers a pleasant journey. It’s a song that reminds me of a few road trips that, as a child, I took with my cousins on the way to see our grandparents. We were an animated bunch and thus easily bored. After 20 minutes into the trip, we would start asking “how much longer until we get there?”  It was at this point that my aunt initiated her Road Trip Activities for Kids routine. It’s here that I learned to sing “99 Bottles of Beer on the Wall”. As long as we were singing, we weren’t asking questions.

Kids love to ask their parents questions that parents sometimes find difficult to answer. You know, stuff like “where do babies come from?”

Gianni Rodari (1920-1980) was an Italian writer known mainly for his children’s books. His dad died when he was a young boy and his mom was left to raise him on her own. That may explain why Rodari studied in a seminary while an adolescent. At 17 he became an elementary school teacher. This experience with children helped form him as a pedagogical writer.

During Mussolini’s reign, Rodari was forced to join the Young Fascist Party in order to work. But, in 1944, Rodari joined the Communist Party as well as la Resistenza (the Resistance). Once the war was over, he began writing for the communist newpaper, L’Unita.

In 1950, Rodari published his first children’s book “Il libro delle filastrocche” (The Book of Children’s Poems) and continued writing until his death. The last book published was “The Book of Whys” (Il libro dei perche).

For moms with curious kids, “The Book of Whys” offers a helping hand in answering typical kid questions. You know, questions like “Why doesn’t the moon fall from the sky?” and “Why do roosters crow?” and “Why do rainbows come out after the rain?”

Rodari answers the questions with a simple explanation embellished by related rhymes. For example, “why does hair grow? (perché crescono I capelli?). Rodari explains that “Hair is planted in the skin, like plants in the earth, and has roots (the blood vessels of the bulb) through which it nourishes itself.” But this is followed by a quirky little poem about growing flowers on our head instead of hair. That way, you can tell what kind of person someone is by the kinds of flowers growing on their head.

When small children begin making connections, they start asking “why?” all the time simply because they’re trying to understand something. One study I read said that children from 2-5 years of age ask over 100 questions in an hour. That’s a lot of answers for a young momma to come up with. Maybe a creative elementary school teacher out there will come up with a more contemporary and practical version of “The Book of Whys”. Elementary school teachers would better know the typical questions children ask and how to answer them.

Any volunteers?

Gianni Rodari is buried at the Verano Monumental Cemetery in Rome.

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Related: Janis Joplin sings “Happy Trials” to John Lennon + The Italian Genius Who Mixed Marxism and Children’s Literature, Gianni Rodari, who has been almost unknown in English till now, united a fantastical imagination with a deep interest in education +

Gianni Rodari, 100 years young + The Grammar of Fantasy and the Fantastic Binomial: Beloved Italian Children’s Book Author Gianni Rodari on Creativity and the Key to Great Storytelling +

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envy

colored drawing of a woman being held down by two men dressed in black... the woman is wering a flowered dress

Freud claimed that young women growing up experienced anxiety when they realized that they didn’t have a penis. But maybe that was just wishful thinking on Freud’s part. The truth could be totally the opposite — that men are jealous of the female clitoris.

Men are jealous because women have a clitoris, the only organ dedicated to sexual pleasure whereas they have a multi-use organ that serves mainly for urinating.

“Clitoris” comes from the Greek word “kleitoris” which has been translated as “little hill” as well as “to rub”. The clitoris has over 8000 nerve endings, more than double that of a penis, and could explain why women can have multiple orgasms but men can’t.

Men are so jealous of the clitoris that, in some cultures, women are subjected to genital mutilation. There are no health benefits from a clitoridectomy, just physical and psychology damage.

Men have always been afraid of women’s vaginas. It shows in folkloristic beliefs such as that of the vagina dentata, a toothed vagina that can castrate you. The man enters the vagina full of himself but then withdraws in defeat after being devoured. As Camille Paglia says in her book Sexual Personae “every penis is made less in every vagina.” Maybe that’s why the existential French call an orgasm a “petite mort”, that is, a “little death”.

She Danced for her TV

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Related: The Clitoris, Uncovered: An Intimate History + Vagina dentata +

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Unbridled

colored drawing of a woman on horseback hold the reins

It’s brutal living in a world where goodness has to be defended. It’s existentially alarming to live in a world where expressing your beliefs becomes a problem not only for those in power but for those around you as well. No one really wants you to be you. That’s why it’s ever so important to embrace and celebrate those ideals that give you a direction. Because once a person’s ideals have been discarded and dismantled, there’s little left of them other than their external shell.

A person without ideals is a person with no direction. And a person with no direction is lost. So keep a tight rein on yourself. And know where you’re going.

Keep your free will free or you’ll just become someone’s slave.

drawing woman holding reigns
Holding On

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Chingonas con Chanclas

ICE men must rally hate themselves. In Matthew 22:39 (and elsewhere in the Bible), Jesus instructs his followers to “love your neighbor as yourself”. Only someone who hates himself could be as cruel to another human being as these men are.

Where is their dignity or self-respect? It is apparent they have none. That’s why they need to be shamed until they’re “woke” to all the pain they are causing. And who better for that task than Chingonas, badass mommas who’ve learned not to take shit from ego – inflated machos.

“Chancla” is Spanish for flip-flop. In Latino culture, the chancla has been given almost a mythical status. When kids are out of control, moms can quickly get their attention by throwing a flip flop at them. Although, from a distance, seeing a flip flop flying may seem comical, it’s still a form of corporal punishment. Nevertheless, it’s a good way to get someone’s attention. And to repurpose our flip flops.

Viva Las Chingonas!

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The link below comes from Jenn Budd, a former border patrol agent who was so repulsed by what she saw that she became an immigrant rights activist and author.

In the Mexican culture, these ladies are called Chingonas. This is like saying they are bad ass bitches; meant in a good way. It’s a compliment. ¡Chingona(s)!

Jenn Budd (@jennbudd.bsky.social) 2025-06-12T01:57:19.720Z

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Trams need Trees

Sunday we voted on the referendum. My voting station is in the neighborhood of San Lorenzo. Originally a working class neighborhood, it eventually became trendy in part because of its nearness to La Sapienza University.

This is via dei Reiti Sunday morning. It looks desolate and demanding. We are experiencing very high temperatures in Rome at present so standing out in the sun waiting for a tram is not a pleasant experience. It made me think of the Tuscan countryside where there’s often a tree in the middle of a field to provide shade for the animals. So when its hot, they all huddle together under the tree to share the shade.

A floral canopy of Bougainvillea provides shades for those waiting on the tram (via dei Reti, Rome)
A floral canopy of Bougainvillea provides shades for those waiting on the tram (via dei Reti, Rome)

And Sunday morning, just like those Tuscan animals, people waiting for the tram were huddled together under an enormous bougainvillea to protect them from the harshness of the sun. But not all neighborhoods are the same. For example, the bourgeois neighborhood known as Coppède has a lot of green making waiting for a tram a lot easier.

A tram stop across from a shaded parking area (via Chiana, Roma)

A bus stop on via Chiara is much kinder than that of San Lorenzo. A strip of land with big shady trees splits the street in two offering shade not only to people walking down the street but also providing shade for parked cars. It’s also more aesthetically pleasing.

The green interior of a Roman tram with few people

On the tram.

Via Gaetano Moroni in Rome with many trees providing soothing shade
the trees of Via Gaetano Moroni

This is via Moroni in the Piazza Bologna area. It’s a street I had to walk down for several weeks and the trees made the walk a pleasant experience.

Viale Regina Margherita in Rome at a tram stop. The street Is lined with trees.

This is the tram stop on viale Regina Margherita across from the church Santa Maria Addolorata a Piazza Buenos Aires. It’s not difficult to imagine all the difference these trees make during the summer.

Photograph of the church Santa Maria Addolorata in Rome
Santa Maria Addolorata

Trees make life easier. They can help reuce urban heat by 5-10 degrees. But trees offer much more than shade. Having green spaces in the city provides various positive benefits. For example, studies show that green spaces help to reduce stress (thus helping to reduce blood pressure as well). Green spaces also help to reduce noise pollution.

The wealthier areas of the city seem to be greener. Now we can imagine why.

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Related: Urban Heat Crisis: How Strategic Tree Planting Makes a Difference + Analysis of Urban Greenery in Rome + Trees vs. noise – How vegetation helps reduce sound pollution +

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