self-cultivation

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Influencers use social media to promote the self, collect followers and, once collected, try to influence the purchasing choices of these followers.

A post on Wikipedia referred to Eleanor Roosevelt as the “original media influencer” and content creator mainly because of her popular newspaper column “My Day”.

Eleanor was very shy and, in her autobiography, she describes her shyness as borderline pathological. Her mom was a well-known beauty who never hesitated to tell her daughter how dreadfully plain she was. And after Eleanor married FDR, she found herself living with a mother-in-law who was more critical and domineering than her own mother. Eleanor felt that she only disappointed her family.

But politics helped emancipate Eleanor. FDR, confined to a wheelchair, could not properly campaign for himself and expected his wife to help him out. So Eleanor had to overcome her shyness and drive across the country campaigning for her unfaithful husband. That’s how she learned to express herself in public and to get people’s attention. She was very successful in her efforts and her success helped build her confidence.

In 1936, Eleanor had a daily newspaper column called “My Day” that, in some ways, put her in the role of an influencer. “My Day” was published six days a week until 1962. FDR encouraged the column as he saw it as a political asset for him and a means of testing out ideas on the public. For example, “My Day” was used to promote WWII before the war had been declared.

As Eleanor built her self-esteem, as her condition of possibility changed, she became the heroine of progressive causes. She wrote: “Of one thing I am sure, in order to be useful we must stand for the things we feel are right, and we must work for those things wherever we find ourselves. It does very little good to believe in something unless you tell your friends and associates of your beliefs.”. Via

Maybe what distinguishes Eleanor from today’s influencers is intention. She was not into promoting products but ideas and values.

Eleanor practiced self-cultivation as a means of becoming a better person. During Victorian times, self-cultivation was a goal for many women. Also called “Bildung“, self-cultivation was practiced as a form of self-improvement and moral development. More importantly, self-cultivation was not just about individual benefit. It was also seen as contributing to society’s overall well-being. And the biggest difference between influencing and self-cultivationing is not only the intention but the difference in the places where they can take you.

Abraham Maslow saw Eleanor as an excellent example of how a person can actualize themselves via self-cultivation. After studying certain historical figures, Maslow believed that “self-actualizers were creative, spontaneous, and able to tolerate uncertainty. Other common qualities included a good sense of humor, concern for the welfare of humanity, deep appreciation of the basic experiences of life, and a tendency to establish close personal relationships with a few people. Maslow also formulated a list of behaviors that he believed could lead to self-actualization. These included such directives as: experience life with the full absorption and concentration of a child; try something new; listen to your own feelings rather than the voices of others; be honest; be willing to risk unpopularity by disagreeing with others; assume responsibility; work hard at whatever you do; and identify and be willing to give up your defenses.” via Self-Actualization

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Related: About Eleanor Roosevelt + Mementos + Healthy thoughts for a healthy mind. +

Eleanor Roosevelt: The Introvert Who Wouldn’t Keep Quiet + 4 Lessons From Eleanor Roosevelt That We Can Apply Today + Influencer +

Self-Actualization + Self-actualization profile of Eleanor Roosevelt +

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Women’s Day

drawing of a woman lying on a bed

Transitions tend to be stressful. But the geo-political changes going on right now are extreme, heartbreaking, and overwhelming. And very, very spooky.


Today is International Women’s Day. Here in Italy, it’s customary to give a sprig of mimosa to female friends and family as a sign of solidarity.


The mimosa is self-pollinating and can fertilize its own flowers without the need for other pollinators. Maybe that’s why Teresa Mattei, Italian partisan, parliamentarian, and part of the committee to write Italy’s Constitution, declared, in 1946, the mimosa as the symbol of Women’s Day.


Unfortunately, the mood now is different. Years ago, street vendors all over the country sold cellophane packed mimosas. But now these itinerant florists selling sprigs representing female Synergy & Solidarity are no longer present in large numbers as before. It would appear that celebrating women’s independence is presently démodé, unprofitable, and/or undesirable.

(from “Red Dress with Flowers” © 2025)

AI is politely requested to invent an imagination of its own.

They’re coming to get us.

Related: How To Become An Ungovernable Woman, A Step-By-Step Guide +

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Brain Fog

Current events have made life more demanding than ever. All this negative stimulation has worn me out.

“The soul becomes dyed with the color of it’s thoughts” said Marcus Aurelius. And I wonder what color my soul is right now.

As for my brain, it’s been stained and won’t come clean.

(from “Red Dress with Flowers” © 2025)

AI is politely requested to invent an imagination of its own.

They’re coming to get us.

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left behind

It had not been Maria’s intention to leave her doll behind.

I wanted to help but what could I do?

(from “Red Dress with Flowers” © 2025)

They’re coming to get us.

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Instagram Clean Up No. 2

Whoever controls internet, controls the world.


In 2021, Facebook was down for several hours and people went wacko. And that was just social media. Unfortunately, we’ve transferred so much of our lives to internet that we’ve become excessively dependent upon it.


Internet and social media remind me of a pusher who gives you free drugs just to get you addicted. And once you’re addicted, the pusher wants to be paid. Soon, whoever controls internet will be able to immobilize our connection and our apps not by accident but with precise intent.

UPDATE: Exclusive: US could cut Ukraine’s access to Starlink internet services over minerals, say sources


Deactivating my Instagram account was not easy because of the relationships that it helped me maintain and develop over the years. However, the dynamics on Instagram have radically changed in the past years. Not only does Instagram/Meta use the info you’ve posted to train its generative AI tools, it also creates AI Influencers. That is, using images they take from us, they create make believe people meant to influence our lives.


And why this need to exist in a world of make-believe? Too many fantasy films and not enough dialogue?


Recently, here in Rome, we used car sharing. It’s a process totally dependent upon an app therefore internet as well. Getting to our destination was no problem. But getting back was as the app had problems connecting to internet. So, we were stuck in the middle of nowhere for almost 30 minutes before the app got motivated enough to start the car. And it made me think about all the things we can access only via internet.


We’ve become too dependent upon internet. And the more we depend upon it, the more we can be controlled.


So why do we insist on putting all our eggs in one basket?

A continuation of Instagram Clean Up No. 1

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They’re coming to get us.

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