Repositioning and Resistance

Positioning in marketing refers to where you place your product within a particular target market. Because positioning is important as to how the product is perceived. For example, you sell purses. Do you want them to be seen as haute couture or simply pret a porter, luxury or off the rack, used or vintage?


Position directs perception. To affront competition, Burger King needed to position itself differently than McDonald’s. So, it came out with this ad: “Why eat with the clown when you can dine with a King?” implying that Burger King is a higher-class dining experience as opposed to eating with a McDonald’s clown.


The way you’re positioned is the way you’re perceived. And the results of the recent U.S. election make it evident that many women perceive themselves as inferior to men. And why wouldn’t they? In this patriarchal society that’s been forced upon us, men have brainwashed us, and themselves, into believing that they are superior. They are not.


Repositioning, instead, involves changing how something is perceived with the intent of making it more marketable. For example:


Apple was just a computer brand. Wanting to expand its market, Apple repositioned itself with iPod, a lifestyle brand.


Dove, in 2004, launched the Real Beauty campaign positioning itself with women celebrating diversity. But noting that men were increasing interested in beauty care, to expand its market Dove launched a new line of male personal-care products.


Shomari Figures (D) fought against gerrymandered districts in Mobile, Alabama and won. Then he ran for Congress and won again. He believes he won his election by taking his campaign away from national positioning and, instead, focusing on local issues.

Cleaning Up

In the 1940s, psychologist Mamie Phipps Clark and her husband conducted a series of experiments known as the “doll tests”. The intent was to see the psychological effects of segregation on Black children.

from The White Doll


Black children (ages 3-7) were presented with a white doll and a black doll then asked which doll was beautiful, which doll was good, which doll was ugly, and which doll was bad. Most of the children indicated the white doll as good and beautiful whereas the black doll as bad and ugly. The psychologists concluded that discrimination and segregation had caused these children to feel inferior thus mutilating the perception they had of themselves.


Segregation subjected Blacks to a collective solitary confinement. Deprived interaction with the mainstream world, Black children grew up feeling isolated and inadequate. They considered themselves losers even before the game got started.


The results were so concrete and devastating that they were used in the case of Brown v. Board of Education, the 1954 landmark Supreme Court case in which the justices ruled unanimously that racial segregation of children in public schools was unconstitutional.

Toni Morrison

from The Bluest Eye

In Toni Morrison’s THE BLUEST EYE, Pecola, a little Black girl is forced to live with a foster family because her home was burned down by her depraved and alcoholic father. Pecola considers herself to be ugly because of her dark skin. So she prays to God for blue eyes thinking that they will make her beautiful. For two years she prays but, despite all her prayers, her eyes remain brown. And for Pecola, those brown eyes are proof that God doesn’t exist.


Morrison dramatically illustrates how racism can lead towards self-hatred. And how self-hatred can lead towards insanity. Similarly, misogyny can cause women to have low self-esteem. And that’s where we ladies need to do some work. We need to reposition ourselves so we can perceive ourselves in a better way.

Because the perception we have of ourselves determines how others perceive us, the first question we need to answer is how do we perceive our own selves.


The summer of 2008, I read The Great Cosmic Mother while on Paros. The premise of the book, based on extensive research, was that the Goddess religion was humanity’s original religion. It was a religion based on a spiritual understanding of the world. It was a religion celebrating Earth’s fertility, the phases of the moon, the seasons. And the woman’s reproductive cycle. “In the world’s oldest creation myths, the female god creates the world out of her own body.”


History has been, for the most part, written by men for men. But The Great Cosmic Mother is the story of women’s history written by women.

Did you know that:


The oldest known tools were the digging sticks used by women to forage food.


The first calendars were bones with slashes on them indicating moon phases similar to women’s menstrual cycle. Thus, the first calendar was invented by women.


Women were also instrumental in the development of language. Men were silent, a habit acquired when tracking animals. “Meanwhile, the women worked collectively in or near the camp, surrounded by children, talking and singing. Language must have developed in the first intimate relations between mother and child, and between women working together for the kin-group’s daily sustenance.”


Women also had the job of making pots for food storage. They often decorated the pots with symbols. These symbols eventually led to the written word.


“The cave, as the womb of the Earth Goddess, was considered by the ancients to be the repository of mystic influences.” And, although men have always been given credit for the cave paintings, we know now that women, and not men, created them.


This book gave me a totally different outlook of myself as a woman. It made me feel full of love and self-esteem. It repositioned me. It helped me to perceive myself as a woman differently. And now that there is a war on women, I will be rereading it again soon.


The religion of the Goddess says, “I am part of the world, and the world is a part of me.”

Se Was Being Followed

They’re coming to get us.

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Related:


The White Doll + The Bluest Eye +


Shomari Figures
wins bid to represent Alabama district embroiled in Supreme Court case +


Ancient Women Artist
s May Be Responsible for Most Cave Art +

Elon Musk suggests support for replacing democracy with government of ‘high-status males’

Musk Gets a Gushy Message From Italy’s Meloni After Election Triumph…that’s all we need + Italy’s Giorgia Meloni cultivates her relationship with Elon Musk , The Italian prime minister hopes to become the privileged representative in Europe of a new Trump administration, in which the billionaire would have a role.

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Happy Birthday Momma

American women helped to elect a rapist as the president of the United States. Why?


In 1974, Patty Hearst, granddaughter of the publishing magnate, was kidnapped from her Berkely apartment by the Symbionese Liberation Army (SLA). Patty was 19.


The SLA kidnapped Patty hoping to exchange her for jailed SLA comrades. The State said “No” so the SLA kept Patty locked in a closet. However, a couple of months later, Patty announced that she’d joined her abductors in their fight for love and peace via armed violence.


Patty now called herself “Tania” after Che Guevara’s girlfriend. And as Tania, she helped her abductors rob a bank. Two men were shot. The bandits, including Patty, escaped but eventually were caught.


In 1975, Patty was tried. As she was malnourished (weighing only 40 kilos) and had a zombie-like behavior (her IQ had dropped 18 points while captive), defense lawyers claimed Patty had been brainwashed. But the judge had no sympathy. Patty, convicted of using a firearm in a bank robbery, was given the maximum sentence of 35 years (she was later pardoned by President Carter).


One unexpected defender of Patty was conservative actor John Wayne who said he was puzzled as to how people could believe that cult leader Jim Jones convinced 900 people to drink Terminal Punch yet couldn’t accept that a 19-year-old girl kidnapped and hidden in a closet for weeks could be brainwashed into participating in SLA crimes.


Why is it that many men treat women as inferiors yet expect more from them than from their so-called superior selves?


Just a year before Patty’s heist, a bank robbery gone wrong in Stockholm revealed the unsettling rapport between hostages and captors. For six days, four people were held hostage by bank robbers. When the hostages were finally rescued, they were very protective towards their captors. This unexplicable bonding became known as the Stockholm Syndrome.


The Stockholm Syndrome is a coping mechanism for those in abusive situations causing the victim to justify and/or develop positive feelings towards the abuser. Something many battered wives do.


Women, trapped inside a patriarchal culture, are being treated as hostages. Could I therefore assume that the women who voted for Trump are victims of the Stockholm Syndrome?

Toni O

Today is my mom’s birthday. She would have been 92.

My mom was a single parent during a time when being a single mom was a major struggle. Nevertheless, my mom made sure I had three daily meals, a bed with clean sheets, and the nicest dresses possible to wear to school. Considering the gender pay gap and the stigma of being a divorcée, my mom performed miracles.

I owe it to my mom and to all the other single moms who had to fight to survive in This Woman Hating Patriarchy to keep the fight going so their struggles will not have been in vain. And I will use this blog to do so.

Ladies, Trump & Co. have created a gender war. They feel that, as men, it’s their right to push women around. The loudest of the clan are the incels, short for involuntary celibacy. Unable to attract women on their own, these sfigati, now that Trump is president, are blatantly telling women “Your body, my choice.” Ladies, this is rape mentality and we should be scared especially if we have daughters.


The biggest incel rooster seems to be a boy named Nick who immediately got on Twitter after the elections and wrote “I’d just like to take the opportunity to thank men for saving this country from stupid bitches who wanted to destroy the world to keep abortion.”

We should not be surprised if the number of rapes and femicides increases. Is this what the women who voted for Trump really wanted?

Pussy Hats

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Related:

Stockholm syndrome +Your Body, My Choice video +

Gender wars in America and beyond +

‘Your body, my choice’: Women report rise in online misogyny following Donald Trump’s victory +

What Can Women Do Now? Trump’s victory is a referendum on feminist progress.

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Chiuso per Lutto

Closed for Mourning

Sad

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Protect your Womanhood

Women need to take themselves seriously or nobody else will.

Just think of it, the history of every human begins inside a woman’s body. It may have been provoked by a male orgasm, but the responsibility of the new life will be a woman’s, not a man’s. What took a man just minutes will take a woman years.

Before there were gods, there were goddesses. Many cultures worshipped the Great Cosmic Mother. Because adoring a mother meant adoring life itself. Then warlike patriarchal cultures took over and attempted to destroy women’s sacredness. Men, to feel superior, placed women in a subservient role. But this need to feel superior alienates men from the needs and struggles of others. This need to feel superior alienates men from women. And, in the end, this need to feel superior alienates men from themselves.

Man is superior if and only if he does not consider himself as such.

Women, thanks to their biology, are wired for empathy, the capacity to recognize and understand the feelings of another. Empathy permits women to protect and better care for their offspring. For example, how could a mother and her tiny baby communicate otherwise? Thus, empathy and maternal instinct are often entangled.

Empathy, a means of inter-relating, is fundamental for our survival and evolution. It is an awareness that we are all dependent one upon the other. Empathy is the basis of a sense of community, of a healthy society. Without it, there is nothing civil about civilization.

Being maternal does not necessarily mean being a mother. Being maternal means nourishing and protecting the lives of those who cannot defend themselves. Being maternal is listening when someone needs to talk, to hug when someone needs affection, to make someone smile when they are fatigued from frowning. Being maternal means respecting the lives of others even if they are not part of your family or your social milieu.

Today we live in such a conflictual world that’s constantly fragmenting itself. So, Ladies, please, do not underestimate yourselves. Remember that we are the glue that keeps the world together.

For my American lady friends getting ready to vote, please remember your role as a woman. Remember to maintain your maternal instinct towards all the babies of the world–yours and everyone else’s. Please, please, please, do not underestimate your importance!

Below our balcony is a Madonella shrine. It depicts Mother Mary holding Baby Jesus. The inscription reads “Mater Divini Amoris, Ora Pro Nobis” that translates as “Mother of Divine Love, pray for us.”

Tiny urban street shrines portraying the Madonna such as the one above are known as “Madonelle” and there’s an abundance of them in Rome.

Madonelles were created to protect people on the streets. Generally, there were placed at intersections because that’s where demons often hid hoping to trap a passerby who, deciding which way to go, was temprarily distracted.

There’s also the popular belief that people are less likely to commit a crime or misbehave if Mary, the mom of all moms, is watching.

So don’t let mom down.

Pussy Hats

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Related:

Ecofeminism, Barbara Mor and The Great Cosmic Mother +

The Great Cosmic Mother by Barbara Mor and Monica Sjoo + Monica Sjöö: The Great Cosmic Mother +

Watch Out For the Madonnelle street shrines +

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Evolution & Decadence 3

Primates began to appear 60 million years ago. During the last 7 million years of this time, the first “hominids” evolved into being.  Thanks to these hominids and all the efforts they made to survive, we sapiens exist.

But in our brief existence of c 50,000 years, homo sapiens have come to dominate the Earth. How did sapiens manage to survive when the other species didn’t. Why do sapiens feel the need to impose themselves on others as well as on nature? How did we evolve to become who we are?

Author Yuval Noah Harari writes that Homo sapiens are the “deadliest species ever in the 4-billion-year history of life on earth.” Spooky, no?

So just a few notes on our evolution from Harari’s book Sapiens, A Brief History of Humankind.:

The foragers

After their fall, finding food became a problem. Adam and Eve, once kicked out of the garden, became mankind’s first foragers. Eve, already an expert in picking forbidden fruit off trees, now had to learn food mining. That is, digging in the dirt looking for something edible.

For much of our species’ existence, we lived as foragers. It’s only in the past 200 years that we’ve become dependent more on others than on ourselves to produce the food we eat.

Evolutionary psychologists believe that our long pre-agricultural era left its imprinting on us. In Sapiens, Harari writes of the “gorging gene” and modern man’s instinct to gorge himself into obesity.

In prehistoric times, if, for example, a woman foraging for food came across a luscious fig tree full of fruit not only would she pick as much as possible to take home, but she’d also eat as many as she could right then and there because she couldn’t be sure to find such figs, or any other food, again soon. The motto was “Gorge yourself while you can”. Unfortunately, our DNA still thinks food is scarce, so we continue to stuff ourselves.

Foraging represents the original fast food, just pick and go.

Paleoanthropologists, after examining fossilized skeletons, summarized that foragers were less likely to suffer from starvation or malnutrition than their peasant descendants. The secret of their success was variety. Later, when farmers came around, they ate only what they produced thus a limited and unbalanced diet.

Ancient foragers lived in nomadic communities that had no concept of private property. They were able to interact with the world around them in a way that today’s sapiens can’t emulate. When sapiens foraged for survival, they obviously depended upon their knowledge of the natural world to obtain food. But today a person does not need this information to survive. All he has to do is go to the grocery store.

Technology has made us arrogant. And unappreciative. Our hubris will take us to hell.

Animism.

The world does not evolve around humans. And the ancient forager knew this. It’s commonly assumed that these foragers had animistic beliefs. That is, that every living thing and every natural phenomenon has awareness and feelings that can be communicated to humans. The world around the ancient foragers was animated and very much alive. Feelings were everywhere. Even rocks had feelings.

Dogs.

Living nomadically limited the number of possessions a clan could have.  But from about 15,000 years ago, even before the Agricultural Revolution, humans had dogs. Dogs helped in the hunting and fighting and protecting. So, there’s no surprise he’s considered man’s best friend.

Conflict.

Although there’s little physical proof of prehistoric wars, there was obviously conflict. Especially in relationship to territorial domain and access to food.

When sapiens invaded the territory where Neanderthals had been living for generations, problems occurred. Although they began their evolution over 400,000 years ago, much earlier than sapiens, Neanderthals had not developed the sapiens capacity for abstract thought.

Neanderthals, whose population was much smaller than that of the sapiens, lived mainly in isolation. Therefore, they were prone to inbreeding as opposed to interbreeding. This meant that their genetic pool was not as varied and animated as that of the sapiens who enjoyed mixing and matching.

Being too genetically distant from each other, in theory, Neanderthals and sapiens couldn’t produce fertile children together. So why do we all have a slight percentage of Neanderthal DNA in us?

Neanderthals have been unfairly typed casted as slow witted. But that’s not the case. These archaic humans, more muscular than sapiens, had survived for more than 360,000 years before becoming extinct 40,000 years ago.

Homo sapiens and Neanderthals coexisted for thousands of years occasionally interbreeding (that’s why most of us have Neanderthal genes). But the Neanderthal’s population progressively diminished until none were left at all. Why?

What caused the Neanderthal’s extinction? Many scholars believe 45 thousand years ago, the first act of human genocide was the massacre of the Neanderthals.

Dr. Yarin Eski, criminology expert, claims that “Genocidal violence and mass exploitation are perhaps the defining characteristics of being human…superior weapons and hunting strategies allowed sapiens to control food sources thus starving out Neanderthals.

Not all scholars agree with this theory. Some believe in the replacement theory claims that sapiens replaced all the other human species without merging with them.

The Neanderthals could not successfully compete with the sapiens’ organization and more advanced technology. This may have been the main reason for their extinction.

There’s always so much speculation when dealing with the past, especially the prehistoric past. New discoveries are being made all the time that often obliterate previous theories. Therefore, like a French film, there is no conclusion to this existential post.

Donut Hole

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Bibliography:

Harari, Yuval Noah. Sapiens, A Brief History of Humankind. Penguin Random House. London. 2011

Related: Gorging Gene: How Our “Hunter Gatherer” DNA Is Making Us Fat Now +

Yarin Eski: Unraveling Space Criminology + Space Criminology stands as an academic pursuit, committed to fostering a scholarly environment in the exploration of space-related crimes, policing, security, and justice. Our aim is to contribute to the academic understanding of this field, offering a nuanced perspective on the complexities inherent to the cosmic frontier.

How Much Neanderthal DNA do Humans Have? Our ancestors interbred with Neanderthals, and evidence of these ancient liaisons can still be found in the DNA of people living today. +Adam and Eve were the first foragers. For most of our “species” existence, we lived as foragers.

When Did God Create Adam and Eve? + **Early Hominin Childcare: A Community Effort** +

When Farmers and Foragers First Met +

Study: At Least Five Dog Lineages Existed 11,000 Years Ago +

Why Is Homo sapiens the Sole Surviving Member of the Human Family? +

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