Fairy Dust

When I think of dust, I think of housework and not fairies. But apparently fairies have a special kind of dust that can make you fly. Just like Tinker Bell. Some brands of fairy dust also permit you to shrink and hide. As a response to Fight-or-Flight, fairy dust covers the flight option well. However, the chronic activation of the “Fight-of-Flight” response can wear one down. For this reason, the dust must be used with caution.

Now fairies can’t fly without the dust and what good is a fairy that can’t get up off the ground? And because this dust is so important, there are specially selected dust-keeping fairies who have the responsibility of process and rationing out the precious dust.

Having some fairy dust to throw around when needed could dramatically help the quality of my daily life. The minute someone starts exasperating my bio-rhythms, all I have to do is blow some dust in their face to send them away.

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Related: Brakes, Daphine Du Maurier and Peter Pan + Mermans and Mermaids, Hans Christen Andersen in Rome +

Arthur Conan Doyle (1859 – 1930) was Fairy Fixated. He travelled extensively for his spiritualist missionary work. In 1922, he published The Coming of the Fairies describing his belief in them.

Doyle had been taken in by the Cottingley Fairies and truly believed the photos taken by cousins Frances Griffiths and Elsie Wright to be real  +   The two illusions that tricked Arthur Conan Doyle +

The Armistice Day Series – The Spirit Photography of Ada Deane +

Metamorphoses by Ovid is a collection of stories about transformation +

Grimms’ Fairy Tales + What-the-Dickens: the story of a rogue tooth fairy by Gregory Maguire, read free on Archive HERE +

A Dictionary of Fairies: Hobgoblins, Brownies, Bogies, and Other Supernatural Creatures by Katharine Mary Briggs on Archive HERE + Madame d’Aulnoy + A History of Fairy Dust

Fairy Flax is a petite herbaceous plant that can grow up to 25 cm in height. It’s from this delicate plant with little white flowers that the fairies use to make fabric for the clothes that they wear.

making fairy dust + buy fairy dust with these ingredients +

Fight or Flight, Understanding the stress response  +

Change, The paradoxes and possibilities of changing, the continuous creative act of seeing clearly, art at the border of the mathematical and the miraculous +

On my Fairy Bookshelf: ‘Prisoner in Fairyland’ +

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Martin Amis’ Night Train

“I have taken a good firm knot and reduced it to a mess of loose ends.” Detective Mike Hoolihan

After Martin Amis’ recent death, I came across his Night Train at our neighbourhood bookstore. It was used and discounted so I bought it.

The book, named after a song, tells the story of Detective Mike Hoolihan’s investigation of the death of Jennifer Rockwell. Was it or was it not a suicide?

Mike Hoolihan is a woman. She knows both Jennifer and her father, Colonel Tom. Both Jennifer and the Colonel were very kind to Mike when she tried to beat her alcohol dependency. So Mike feels much in debt with the Colonel. And he wants her to investigate his daughter’s death hoping that it wasn’t a suicide but, if so, what was the motivation. Why would Jennifer consider ending her life when she was “a kind of embarrassment of perfection”, an exceptionally beautiful and brilliant astrophysicist with plenty of verve and promises of success.

*Semi-spoiler alert here

Felo de se is Latin for “felon of one’s self” meaning that whoever kills themselves commits a crime. And if you commit a crime, you should be punished but how can you be punished if you’re dead? You can’t so who will pay for your gesture will be those you’ve left behind.

Jennifer had “terrific esprit” and “was unfailing cheerful. She got frustrated sometimes. We all do. Because we—we’re permanently on the brink of climax.”  Mike finally comes to the conclusion that Jennifer did indeed kill herself probably because she suffered from the Paradise Sundrome. This syndrome is manifested in individuals who, despite having actualized their dreams, feel only dissatisfaction. You know, when too much is not enough.

Although women may think more about committing suicide, men actually die by suicide more frequently

In the U.S., the profession with the highest suicide rate is among doctors. And the lowest is, apparently, among librarians and teachers.

The county with the highest suicide rate is Lesotho with about 72% suicides per 100,000 people. Once known as Basultoland, Lesotho was a British colony from 1884 until 1966 when it became the Kingdom of Lesotho. Poverty is a leading reason for these suicides.

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Related: Tulips and Hats + The Suicide Epidemic in a Wyoming Boomtown +
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Marcus Aurelius (121 AD – 180 AD)

Marcus Aurelius at Campidiglio

In the center of Piazza del Campidoglio in Rome, there’s a statue of Marcus Aurelius who was once Emperor of Rome.  But today he is remembered, in large part, for his journal known as “Meditations” (170-180 AD). These “meditations” were dialogues he had with himself as a means of better understanding his own actions. They were meant for personal and not public use.

Marcus writes “What stands in the way becomes the way” meaning that we should learn to turn obstacles upside down. Sometimes what we see as a barrier can actually become the solution. But it is an art I have yet to master.

The mind, like the body, can become rigid and what is rigid more easily breaks than does something flexible. Like bamboo. To better adapt, maybe we should try stretching both body and mind.

Muscles that are contracted for too long become stiff and difficult to use. The same goes for the mind. A mind that is contracted because it keeps thinking the same thoughts over and over again becomes rigid and difficult to use.

“That all is as thinking makes it so” writes Marcus. Therefore, suggests Marcus, we should learn to control our thoughts. One’s perspective of a situation determines how the situation is affronted and experienced.

Meditations is not a book that can be easily absorbed. A book of reflections, it encourages its readers to reflect as well. Theodore Roosevelt brought a copy with him on his River of Doubt expeditation. The former Prime Minister of China, Wen Jiabao, read Meditations over 100 times whereas collective bargaining creator, Beatrice Webb, referred to Meditations as her Manual of Devotion.

Marcus, like other Stoics, saw journaling as a way of gaining insight into one’s own behavior. Writing about yourself will help you learn about yourself.

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Related: Equestrian Statue of Marcus Aurelius + Turning the Obstacle Upside Down + Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: Book Summary, Key Lessons and Best Quotes + Stoic Journaling: How to Make More Sense of Your Thoughts, Emotions and Habits +

The Horse on the Hill + Diary Writing and other Spiritual Practices + Know Thyself

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Mary Cassatt (1844-1926)   

If I could step into a painting, it would be a painting by Berthe Morisot or Mary Cassatt. They are paintings that talk about women and their spaces. Plus they are very pretty.

Mary Cassatt’s parents were not only wealthy, they were also very progressive. They believed that their daughters should get a good education. And, as travel was considered an integral part of education, the family spent five years travelling around Europe. At this time, Mary visited the Paris World’s Fair of 1855 and was thus exposed to French artists such as Ingres, Courbet, Delacroix, and Corot. It was all very exciting, too exciting because, once back in the States, Mary felt restless. She would not be happy until she was back in France. But she would have to wait until the end of the Civil War. Although her father initially objected, Mary returned to Paris in 1866 with her mother acting as chaperone.

Paris may have been avant-garde compared to the U.S.A. but it was still rather retro in terms of women’s access to education. Mary, determined to study, found private tutors and in 1868 one of her paintings was accepted for the Paris Salon. Obviously Mary was pleased but she could already tell that the Salon was stuffy and stuck in the past.

At the beginning of the Franco-Prussian War, Mary was sent back to the States where she lived with her family. Her father was not enthused about Mary’s desire to study art. But Mary did not let her father’s objections diminish her desire to make art. Luckily, fate was her friend. A Roman Catholic bishop from Pittsburg commissioned Mary to make copies of paintings by Correggio. To do so, Mary had to go to Parma.

Sponsored by the bishop, Mary went back to Europe. After finishing her commission, she decided to stay in Europe and, in 1874, Mary moved to Paris with her sister. Degas had seen Mary’s paintings and was impressed. So, in 1877, Degas invited Mary to participate in an exhibition sponsored by the Impressionists.

Mary and Degas developed a somewhat peculiar relationship over the years. Some speculate that maybe there had been intimacy between the two but that is really difficult to believe. Degas was a misogynist with a strong interest in the Petits Rats, young girls studying ballet at the Paris Opera who were generally exploited by older wealthier men with backstage passes. As for Mary, Degas once told friends that he could marry Mary but could not in any way make love to her.

Mary and other female artists were limited in the environments they could frequent. But one place where women dominated was in the home. Impressionists looked towards daily life to find subject matter for their paintings thus giving women painters the possibility to paint scenes not previously considered art worthy.

“The Bath” by Mary Cassatt

Not having children of her own meant Mary had more time to paint. And often she chose to use that extra time to paint the children of others.

Five O’Clock Tea by Mary Cassatt

Although social constraints of the time did make participating in certain activities impossible for women, afternoon tea was a typical social event for upper middle-class women. Women thus used sociability as a means of empowerment.  Mary’s painting Five O’Clock Tea documents this type social engagement. There is a feeling of compressed space and constraint making the mood somewhat ambiguous.

Another American ex-pat in Paris at the time was Abigail May Alcott, one of the Little Women. May was a talented painted but was tremendously overshadowed by her famous sister.

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Related: Degas’ Art and His Curious Relationship with Women + Sexual Exploitation Was the Norm for 19th Century Ballerinas, Wealthy men turned the famous Paris Opera Ballet into a brothel + Famous Women Impressionists – Notable Female Impressionists + “Let the World Know You Are Alive”: May Alcott Nieriker and Louisa May Alcott Confront Nineteenth-Century Ideas about Women’s Genius BY LAUREN HEHMEYER

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Coronation Day

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